Jamie

Reminds me of Obsidian, which is what I use for notes. But obsidian isn’t selfhosted. I might actually host a copy of that because it’s cool

You can host a webmail like roundcube or similar. I don’t know if they can be turned into PWAs with phone notifications though.

Nah, you can often move around games on external drives from computer to computer just fine and they’ll typically work.

For my instance, I already have an MXRoute account that I use for my personal email, so I just set up an account on there and pointed Lemmy at that. I’ve been down the road of self-hosting email, and it is a dreadful experience.

Granted, that was with full inboxes and POP3, just hosting the send part might not be so bad. But then you have to contend with possibly being on spam lists, and those are hard to get yourself removed from. If you have some cash to let someone else deal with that headache for you, I fully encourage taking that route.

Sorry for the confusion, but Moe isn’t my last name, just the jamie part. I also own jamie.tools and jamie.today.

I’m on jamie.moe, I like to collect domain names that are just my name.

Any VPS provider worth their salt will have corporate clients with data far more valuable than a random person’s vacation photos. So they probably don’t want anything to do with that data unless it brings them legal trouble. Plus, not knowing can help shield them from all sorts of liabilities.

Possible, but I don’t see it happening. Postgres provides functionality that MySQL/MariaDB don’t, so if a lot of that functionality is used, the primary devs probably aren’t going to want to take on the extra overhead of maintaining and testing it. In those cases, it would require additional rewriting on the Lemmy side to make it work seemlessly. A fork could likely do it, though.

I moved to nginx from Apache for Lemmy. Overall, I like it, I think. Though I do cheat and have ChatGPT generate the config for me and I tweak it from there.

I could do Apache config by hand, but I’m nowhere near adjusted to nginx config yet.

I made my own thread on the topic over at !fediverse@lemmy.world and it seems like a mix of “oh that’s cool” and “some of the stuff he says is kinda ehhh”

I’d say that sums up my opinion pretty well, too.

The arguments for are varied. I don’t have to worry about any admins making decisions on federation, I can federate (or not) however I please. I have my own space that I can do what I want with in a familiar format, and I can make my username Jamie without it being taken.

After almost 24 hours, coming up on 662MB of images, and 371MB for the postegres database. Though, I could see the numbers fluctuating depending on how much stuff you’re subscribed to. I’m currently subscribed to 31 communities, most of them fairly large.

My Lemmy instance is currently occupying about 350MB of RAM, but you can round that up to 400MB. A lot less than the 4GB for KBin.Technically it’s a dual user instance now, since a friend wanted to join it and I said sure.