Gmail and Google Photos for shared stuff.

How did you get to work outside your home network since you have shared folder with friends and family?

Are you self hosting?

Well, that’s too bad about RCS.

Begin to de-google yourself. Research on FOSS alternatives to Google apps and services. Depending on your reliance, this may be a slow process. It’s OK. Build an understanding that there will be lots of sacrificing, especially convenience around the brand ecosystem that Google and Apple are known for.