Tor relay (guard/middle or bridge/snowflake) and i2p node (i2p, i2p+ or i2pd)
Tor bridge/relay and i2p node
Snowflake and i2pd could work but not in the best conditions.
A tor guard/middle relay or bridge/snowflake and i2pd node.
If you look on this plex support page, they say you need around 8000 passmark points, if I were you, I will look a cpu which a bare minimum of 10000 passmark points to be fine.
I recommend debian 12 works like charm
If they do not want to maintain and update a pihole, it is better to just use public dns, like adguard.
You still have realvnc lite. It is free, 1 user, 3 machines, less features, but the basics still there.